Things to Avoid While Chatting with Someone
Don’t get too personal: While chatting with someone always
remember not to get too personal with him/her. No matter how
much you liked him/her or no matter how close you feel while
chatting with him/her, still avoid getting personal. Giving some
special name to him/her in your initial chat might be counted as
negative as the other person might count you kiddish or too fast.
So, be cautious while getting personal with him/her . Chatting
with someone is more serious as compared to dating site as you
consider the other person as your prospective partner. You can’t
take this thing too casually.
Don’t discuss things about your ex: It is important that you
should always be loyal to your partner, but in the initial phase
it is important to understand the other person first and then
only share something important and personal with him or her. It
is important to keep things clear and transparent, but this
stage comes only when you have a level of trust with your
partner. In the initial time, it is not easy and simple to
figure out how the other person will react on this disclosure.
Sharing such things personally is far better than discussing and
sharing on chat.
Never compare things: While chatting with someone ,don’t compare
him/her with your friends/ex/or someone else. It might hurt his/her
sentiments and feeling. No two people are same and they can’t
behave same in all situations. Therefore, comparing someone with
someone else is not the right approach. This way you will miss
exploring and understanding him/her better. It will further
increase your stress and anxiety because there is no point of
comparison. It might be he/she is not too good in expressing
thing online or while chatting with someone. So, always keep
this in mind that meeting and sharing things personally is far
different from doing this online.
Don’t flaunt too much: It might be you are too good looking,
smart, intelligent and the best in your professional field, but
there is no point of flaunting this thing too much. Nobody wants
to marry someone who is self-obsessed and only thinks about
self. Therefore, always keep this in mind that telling something
about you is different and being self-obsessed and flaunting too
much about self is different. It might irked the other person
and encourage him/her to avoid chatting with you.
Avoid sharing too much information: This is another thing, which
you should avoid while chatting someone . It is good to
understand someone first, once you develop a good level of
understanding, and then only start sharing information. Avoid
sharing too much of information because it might be the same can
be used against you in the future.
Avoid using abbreviations: To sound cool and updated, it is not
necessary to use different abbreviations and jargons. There are
many parents who handle the accounts for their kids, so in that
case if you will chat in your whatsapp and chatting language, it
might be the other person will not understand what you want to
say. It might be even he/she will find it difficult to
understand your point. It is always better to use simple words
to make your chatting sessions more fruitful and meaningful.
Don’t be rigid with your approach: When you chat with someone
avoid being rigid in your approach. There are times when you
don’t agree with other’s point and when you think that you are
right, but in such situations avoid being rigid with your
thoughts. Be flexible and good listener. There is no harm in
listening someone and knowing their point. It might be you don’t
agree, but you give him/her an impression that you are open with
thoughts and ideas and always ready to listen other’s view
point. This also shows you respect and maturity.